Love & Illusions

"It ain't working at all" He said
"What did I just hear you say?" I asked her.
"It ain't just working, piggy-head. And I don't know how far I'd go. It's hurting. You know I thought he was the best guy for me, the right one, you know? But I never figured I was in love with such a moron."
I looked at her, and wanted to ask her to awake from her dream, but... you know, it hurts waking up sometimes.

The fact is, most people are in love with the idea of love, they fall in love for their illusions. We often have models in our head, some "crush" we pick up from the tv series, that guy we read about in a book, the player we have watched from a distance... and then, we suddenly meet someone who looks like him/her or like that man we carry in our dreams. That is what falling in love with the idea of love is all about. 

Danger: our relationships remain under the "prise" of an illusion. We want our loved one to be the guy in our dreams. And it gets just too tight, guy you won't imagine the hell that poor fellow would go through trying to play that role? 

That is the crisis bud.